Sunday, January 25, 2009

Puppy-shaped therapy


Do therapists ever recommend that their patients invest in a new puppy? If I were a therapist, I'm pretty sure I would. Winston has been so good for my heart. I'm happy we made the decision to add to our family in this way. (Read: I'm happy Craig finally allowed me to add to our family in this way).

Now I remember why I have always been such a big dog lover. I love my feline friends, too, and I hope to extend our family even more with a couple cats in the future. I miss my Oreo everyday. The thing is, the human-feline relationship has a completely different dynamic than the human-canine one. Dogs work in packs. They crave companionship. Whereas cats can work alone and they're quite content with that thank you very much.

Winston just wants to be with us all the time. He adores us. There's a huge floor he can lie or sit on but he chooses our feet. There's a big couch he can sleep on but he chooses to curl up on our chests, our legs, or anywhere that presents the possibility of snuggleage.

He is incredibly intelligent and picks up on the vibes we send out. We play chase or hide and seek one minute and in the next we are cuddling. He is distrustful of strangers but quivers with excitement when he sees Craig or I. I've already seen his loyalty in action. Even though he's tipping the scales somewhere between 2-3 pounds I feel safer with him around. Mostly because his bark is a LOT bigger than he is!

Of course, like everyone, he has a character flaw. He's a licker. He licks in excess, and we're trying to teach him that one kiss will do. Hey, no puppy is perfect.

I think everyone should have a dog, but especially those who live alone or need a little lift. Dogs show more affection than most humans and the innocence in the unconditional love they have for their owners is pretty amazing. I think it's ridiculous to assume that animals do not feel emotions. I have proof to the contrary.

9 comments:

Aplofuri said...

Funny that I should read your post today about your pooch! I'm in the process of writing my next blog entry and it's all about my fabulous furry friends! Glad to hear that Winston is doing well and is helping to brighten your days.

justin manas prince jaspher ligin said...

it's better to love pet animals to get back the true and unconditional love

Lesley said...

now you have a little glimpse of what it's like to have a child :) As much work as they are, and as much as they NEED from you, it's so nice to know that there's somebody who loves you like that. Who has no idea what an idiot you can be, haha. . . Only having a child is much more complex and much more work, a much bigger responsibility. Anyhow, how you feel about Winston is how I've felt having Isaac around these past couple of months. . .

L to the Aura said...

Well Lesley, I don't know about you... but I'm never an idiot! :)
Isaac has helped heal my heart a lot too. Children are also extremely therapeutic.
But here I'm talking about something even different than that. The place where dogs differ from humans. Their complete and utter adoration and their absolute loyalty. I know little kids love their parents a lot, but dogs have a special thing that I think even humans haven't gotten a hold of yet.

Lesley said...

I dunno sister. . . I'd rather clean up my baby's poop than a dog's poop. . . hehe

Lis said...

I know exactly what you mean! My Collie, Lukey, has gotten me through many tough days in the two years that I've had him. It's amazing how unconditional and freely given his love his!

Danielle said...

I sooooo agree with you. Saba is fantastic.. when Cliff was training, she was there, all the time. Usually when we are both home she just makes sure she knows where we are, and lays down wherever... but the other day we were both home, and I was upset about something random, and she knew it. She gave me extra attention, and immediately I laughed and felt better... Dogs are great therapy, and I would recommend it to anyone!

RaeAnne said...

So true Laura! Oakley is so wonderful ... He's always there, and since Heather and I are living together and on different schedules, it makes me feel so lucky to come home to a big wagging tail and a slobbery kisses! He is over protective, and has the licking addiction as well. But I wouldn't trade him for the world!! Dogs are wonderful!!

For blue skies. said...

aw, your post made me really wish i had a puppy. I'm a total dog person.